Where will your life go? Re-think

Hello old folks.

Have you ever read Paulo Coelho book, The Alchemist? One fantastic book about life and its understanding. Many people are doing things because it is there, and you just need to take it and do it. You do the things because you are obliged to do so, not because it is something you want to do in life. Some people said because this is what I suppose to do in life, my destiny.

Fellas, here, life is full of options. Your destiny is in your hand. You need to choose. To choose what you want to do in life. To chase your dream. Chasing after your dream isn’t an easy way to do, no guys, never be an easy path. The problem is, people love to take the easy way rather than the hard way, like the baker in the book. He chose to be baker rather than chase his dream, took the easy way. On the way chasing your dream, world may against you. People may desert you. It’s your choice. People are afraid to pursue their most important dreams, because they feel that they don’t deserve them, or they’ll be unable to achieve them. (The Alchemist. Santiago to himself)

What am I going to say?

Follow your dream. As simple as that. Don’t be a coward and afraid of changes. Don’t get manipulated by life with a word of fate. Don’t be worry about your future because God hold it well, or if you don’t trust in God, universe will conspire to make your dream into reality.

I, also, should learn on this part. Pursue my dream, take the consequences.

May this writing lead you well.

D

Popped-up in mind: why girls hard to get boys

In one lazy afternoon, one of my friend message me and give a link about reasons why some women hard to get good woman. I, personally, have searched for that question answer for long time. It was Kei Savourie’s blog. Sorry if I write it wrong.

I have friends since high school which probably you can call as my peer group. We talked about the definition of love as our last meeting. A typical conversation of some young ladies that have crush(es) or love story. Typical. But my friends and I aren’t those kind of girl who love to shop or put make-up on our face in order to look good. But I must admit, these girls (I mean my friends) are brilliant. They go to the best universities, have good GPA, good personalities, and the more, they are beautiful. But you know, nothing is perfect in whole world. Every girl has different journey in love and love life. Some can be change bf in a very short time, some don’t. But the thing is, all of them, they have their own difficulties. But now, I’d like to talk about those girls who are perfect but hard to get boyfriends.

People might question why these girls have no boyfriend. Two perspectives, from boys and girls. I might be a lil bit assumptive but, what I write here is based on my observation.

­Boys

Some girls might think that the reason why they have no boyfriend is because they are a REALLY good catch. Some true. I had this conversation with my friends, which is boy, about who’s hot and who’s not thing, about girls in my campus. I came to a name. This girl is very beautiful, I must admit. No person has ever told that she’s not beautiful. Then, I hypothetically questioned to my friend, “if she want to be your girlfriend, would you or wouldn’t?”. Unexpected, he said he wouldn’t. I asked the reason; he simply said that the girl is too good to walk beside him, like he had different level with that girl though this man wasn’t ugly at all.

This is what popped-out in women mind: I am too good for those guys, so I don’t deserve them. Those words are actually only way to cheer them up. But I can’t say that those words are wrong, they are somewhat right, those guys didn’t deserve you girls. They didn’t even try. You’ll get the best! (I mean it)

Girls

This is where the problem may start. These girls sometimes feel that they are a good catch so they play hard to catch. They are good catch, but to those qualified guys who try to catch you, playing hard to catch is a very childish act that shouldn’t be done by a young lady that suppose for being able to think clearly. Then, because of what you had done, you left with no boyfriend. (thank you for Mr. Kei for enlighten me due to this topic)

What I had written might be hurtful, but that’s the truth. So girls, you will get the best boys in life, but when they finally show up and try to catch you, just fall for him. Just fall, he’ll catch you firmly!

Regards,

Delacroix 

New things

Below, are the blog I write when I was quite volatile. So you might just ignore it or probably enjoy it. I might come back writing, but probably not.

see you around,
D

Mesut! :D

Eventhough the WORLD CUP 2010 was over, i still deeply in love with Germany's play maker, Mesut Özil . FYI, he just 21 y.o. Soooo young! Lol. 


So, he is actually Turkish, but he moved his citizenship into Germany. and believe me, Deutschland was soooo lucky! 

oh, you probably want to check his NUTELLA advertisement vids. he looks awesome!

and also check his Schreib Zunkuft video by Nike! he do rap in the second episode. MAGNIFICENT! 

*for further info, please check his website www.mesut-oezil.com (Deutschland)

Glee!

it's kinda late, i guess, for posting a thing about a super famous serial TV - Glee. we can't deny that Glee had hypnotizes many teenagers all over the world. i, myself, can't deny that i fall in love with this serial. basically, Glee, is a drama-musical-comedy serial and the stories are related to our ordinary life. where the fame and the shame are exist. and also, Glee gives us a great music. everybody believes that Glee casts have great talents.

now, i will present you the casts

the first is Ms. Rachel Berry (Lea Michelle)

a very talented singer yet so ambitious. for me, she kinda weird. sorry R!

then Finn Hudson (Cory Monteith)

he is hot, but dumb. lol. at least in my perception.

Quinn Fabray (Dianna Agorn)

the cheerleader captain who is pregnant. she is so beautiful! lol.

Noah "Puck" Puckerman (Mark Salling)

this is my favorite character! he's a hot mess! a bad boy, dumb, but fast thinker. don't forget about his ability in singing and playing guitar. he makes me MELT! 

we also got

Mercedes (Amber Riley)

Tina (Jenna Ushkowitz)

Artie (Kevin McHale)

Kurt Hummel (Chris Colfer)

and also the others. i just too tired to post it one by one. hope u enjoy! xxxx

*i got the pics from www.thetvaddict.com

the boots specialist - dr marten

well, hello! we will talk about the dr marten. yeah, i dunno why, i always love this type of boots. they make me look boyish and i looooovvve it. so i put some dr marten collections here. enjoy!

i love this grey boots. lol. grey is my color, i guess

Prom Nite (?)

after doing research from wikipedia (hell yeah!), i'd conclude that most of the prom tradition in countries are similar. whatever their name (seriously, i found those names weird) they just the same.

i the prom the girl will use corsage, and the boy will use boutonnieres. they will give it to their dates.

people will use a formal clothes for prom night. girls with gown, boys with suit. pretty cool for seeing your classmates in formal suit and full make up, huh?

these are the reference for your prom gown.

i got these from teenvogue.com

for my tips, please use a comfy shoes. you might do dance or whatever it is. so never let your shoes betray you.

have fun ladies.