In one lazy afternoon, one of my friend message me and give a link about reasons why some women hard to get good woman. I, personally, have searched for that question answer for long time. It was Kei Savourie’s blog. Sorry if I write it wrong.
I have friends since high school which probably you can call as my peer group. We talked about the definition of love as our last meeting. A typical conversation of some young ladies that have crush(es) or love story. Typical. But my friends and I aren’t those kind of girl who love to shop or put make-up on our face in order to look good. But I must admit, these girls (I mean my friends) are brilliant. They go to the best universities, have good GPA, good personalities, and the more, they are beautiful. But you know, nothing is perfect in whole world. Every girl has different journey in love and love life. Some can be change bf in a very short time, some don’t. But the thing is, all of them, they have their own difficulties. But now, I’d like to talk about those girls who are perfect but hard to get boyfriends.
People might question why these girls have no boyfriend. Two perspectives, from boys and girls. I might be a lil bit assumptive but, what I write here is based on my observation.
Boys
Some girls might think that the reason why they have no boyfriend is because they are a REALLY good catch. Some true. I had this conversation with my friends, which is boy, about who’s hot and who’s not thing, about girls in my campus. I came to a name. This girl is very beautiful, I must admit. No person has ever told that she’s not beautiful. Then, I hypothetically questioned to my friend, “if she want to be your girlfriend, would you or wouldn’t?”. Unexpected, he said he wouldn’t. I asked the reason; he simply said that the girl is too good to walk beside him, like he had different level with that girl though this man wasn’t ugly at all.
This is what popped-out in women mind: I am too good for those guys, so I don’t deserve them. Those words are actually only way to cheer them up. But I can’t say that those words are wrong, they are somewhat right, those guys didn’t deserve you girls. They didn’t even try. You’ll get the best! (I mean it)
Girls
This is where the problem may start. These girls sometimes feel that they are a good catch so they play hard to catch. They are good catch, but to those qualified guys who try to catch you, playing hard to catch is a very childish act that shouldn’t be done by a young lady that suppose for being able to think clearly. Then, because of what you had done, you left with no boyfriend. (thank you for Mr. Kei for enlighten me due to this topic)
What I had written might be hurtful, but that’s the truth. So girls, you will get the best boys in life, but when they finally show up and try to catch you, just fall for him. Just fall, he’ll catch you firmly!
Regards,
Delacroix
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